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Luke

posted Friday, 28 September 2007

I want to tell you all about a former ACE student.  His name was Luke Milam.  Years after a student graduates, I tend to remember images more than specific events.  When I conjure Luke in my mind’s eye, he is standing at the end of one of the long tables in the classroom, because he wasn’t a boy who liked to sit.  He would, if he had an assignment to do, but the minute he was finished, he was on his feet, usually surrounded by friends, talking camping, cars, girls, whatever…

He didn’t much like school.  Of course, that describes the vast majority of ACE kids, but he did well in ACE.  Every year, we have a handful of kids who are very successful in that class because they are essentially smart kids, it’s just that no other class has been so suited to their learning style.  In ACE, Luke was a great student.  One of the best.  These are the kids you know will succeed out in “the real world” because they have what it takes as long as they find something they love.  Luke graduated in 1999.  It wasn’t the best year to be a senior at Columbine, but it was what it was.

I have come to understand that Luke found something he loved: being a hospital corpsman in the Navy, caring for injured Marines through three tours of duty in Iraq and one in Afghanistan.  He was awarded the Purple Heart, two Combat Action ribbons, two Good Conduct medals, a National Defense Service Medal, a Global War on Terrorism Service Medal and two Sea Service Deployment ribbons.  What did I tell you?  The kid was bound to do well once he graduated.

I’ll be seeing Luke again this Thursday, or, more accurately, I will be seeing his flag-draped coffin at his funeral.  He was killed last Tuesday by a rocket near Musa Qula, Afghanistan.

My ninth-graders and I have just finished Antigone, an ancient play in which a proud ruler’s hubris prevents him from listening to the will of the people in his kingdom or the counsel of wise men and seers, which leads to his downfall.  The play also asserts that to lie unburied and unwept when the battle is done is the cruelest fate for a warrior.  I understand why Luke was sent to Afghanistan better than I understand why he was sent to Iraq, and he was a healer more than a warrior, but one thing is sure:  He will be buried with full honors, wept for by his family, friends, comrades-in-arms, and at least one former teacher.

In pace requiescat, Luke.

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1. catty left...
Saturday, 29 September 2007 5:43 am :: http://savetheamericanfamily.blog-city.c

What a lovely testimonial for who this young man grew to be.

I have to go cry.


2. --W-- left...
Saturday, 29 September 2007 5:48 am :: http://confessionsofalibertine.blog-city

Yeah, it made me kind of misty, myself


3. Neal left...
Saturday, 29 September 2007 6:08 am :: http://watzman.wordpress.com

I wanted to post some flowery comment, but I don't have it. It just hurts sometimes when we see the loss of some of the best and brightest to this stupid war.

Your post, Paula, is a reminder of what we lose in a senseless war. Among other things.


4. sophmom left...
Sunday, 30 September 2007 2:43 pm :: http://www.dotcalm.blog-city.com

I'm so sorry.


5. Ilisa left...
Monday, 1 October 2007 8:10 am

I found your post through google-alerts, as we have been reading all of the news and blogs about our amazing friend and hero, Luke. Thank you for sharing your story. It was nice to hear about his days before I knew him. He was truly a special human being and we are all devastated by this loss. We will be traveling from South Florida to the funeral on Thursday to say good-bye and wish him peace.


6. Paula Reed left...
Monday, 1 October 2007 3:59 pm :: http://paulareed.blog-city.com/

Ilisa, "devastated" is exactly the word. I imagine the funeral will be crowded, but I'll be there somewhere, too, probably with the Columbine principal, Mr. D.

Thanks for the kind words, y'all.


7. Julie left...
Tuesday, 2 October 2007 3:31 pm

Your post brought me to tears becuase it so acuratly reminded me of my friend that who was taken from me, his family, and so many other friends. He truely never did like to sit down!!! I guess i'll be seeing you colorado, our only comfort in this sensless loss is that he truely loved what he was doing and believed in it whole heartidly. Thank you for you wonderful words.


8. Kim left...
Thursday, 4 October 2007 5:52 am

I met Luke in Jacksonville, NC. We had a mutual friend, and together we all became good friends. Luke was a breath of fresh air in this world with so many problems. My heart goes out to his family and friends. I just found out about his passing yesterday, and I'm so sorry I can not be there to say goodbye to my friend. We had a group of friends that would go out and enjoy being together when people were not deployed. Luke was a person that you enjoyed being around, and I will miss him. I love you BROTHER!! Kim


9. Mitch Milam left...
Tuesday, 4 December 2007 5:25 am

To everyone who has posted loving testaments..... thank-you. He will always be my nephew. The family is dealing with it... but we keep remembering the good things