I want to tell you all about a former ACE student. His name was Luke Milam. Years after a student graduates, I tend to remember images more than specific events. When I conjure Luke in my mind’s eye, he is standing at the end of one of the long tables in the classroom, because he wasn’t a boy who liked to sit. He would, if he had an assignment to do, but the minute he was finished, he was on his feet, usually surrounded by friends, talking camping, cars, girls, whatever…
He didn’t much like school. Of course, that describes the vast majority of ACE kids, but he did well in ACE. Every year, we have a handful of kids who are very successful in that class because they are essentially smart kids, it’s just that no other class has been so suited to their learning style. In ACE, Luke was a great student. One of the best. These are the kids you know will succeed out in “the real world” because they have what it takes as long as they find something they love. Luke graduated in 1999. It wasn’t the best year to be a senior at Columbine, but it was what it was.
I have come to understand that Luke found something he loved: being a hospital corpsman in the Navy, caring for injured Marines through three tours of duty in Iraq and one in Afghanistan. He was awarded the Purple Heart, two Combat Action ribbons, two Good Conduct medals, a National Defense Service Medal, a Global War on Terrorism Service Medal and two Sea Service Deployment ribbons. What did I tell you? The kid was bound to do well once he graduated.
I’ll be seeing Luke again this Thursday, or, more accurately, I will be seeing his flag-draped coffin at his funeral. He was killed last Tuesday by a rocket near Musa Qula, Afghanistan.
My ninth-graders and I have just finished Antigone, an ancient play in which a proud ruler’s hubris prevents him from listening to the will of the people in his kingdom or the counsel of wise men and seers, which leads to his downfall. The play also asserts that to lie unburied and unwept when the battle is done is the cruelest fate for a warrior. I understand why Luke was sent to Afghanistan better than I understand why he was sent to Iraq, and he was a healer more than a warrior, but one thing is sure: He will be buried with full honors, wept for by his family, friends, comrades-in-arms, and at least one former teacher.
In pace requiescat, Luke.
What a lovely testimonial for who this young man grew to be.
Yeah, it made me kind of misty, myself
I wanted to post some flowery comment, but I don't have it. It just hurts
sometimes when we see the loss of some of the best and brightest to this
stupid war.
I found your post through google-alerts, as we have been reading all of the
news and blogs about our amazing friend and hero, Luke. Thank you for
sharing your story. It was nice to hear about his days before I knew him.
He was truly a special human being and we are all devastated by this loss.
We will be traveling from South Florida to the funeral on Thursday to say
good-bye and wish him peace.
Ilisa, "devastated" is exactly the word. I imagine the funeral will be
crowded, but I'll be there somewhere, too, probably with the Columbine
principal, Mr. D.
Your post brought me to tears becuase it so acuratly reminded me of my
friend that who was taken from me, his family, and so many other friends.
He truely never did like to sit down!!! I guess i'll be seeing you
colorado, our only comfort in this sensless loss is that he truely loved
what he was doing and believed in it whole heartidly. Thank you for you
wonderful words.
I met Luke in Jacksonville, NC. We had a mutual friend, and together we all
became good friends. Luke was a breath of fresh air in this world with so
many problems. My heart goes out to his family and friends. I just found
out about his passing yesterday, and I'm so sorry I can not be there to say
goodbye to my friend. We had a group of friends that would go out and enjoy
being together when people were not deployed. Luke was a person that you
enjoyed being around, and I will miss him. I love you BROTHER!!
Kim
To everyone who has posted loving testaments..... thank-you. He will
always be my nephew. The family is dealing with it... but we keep
remembering the good things